Comments on: Finding A Girlfriend (Revised Edition) http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/finding-a-girlfriend/ Just want to share with you... Thu, 08 Oct 2009 07:18:02 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Chris http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/finding-a-girlfriend/#comment-150 Chris Sun, 19 Jul 2009 08:53:38 +0000 http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/?p=62#comment-150 heh hi Sheila. Maybe you can share with others how it went and what lesson you make and what u wanna warn girls (and boys) about BGR also? Looking forward to your sharing :) UMS is not a bad place, it's most beautiful! Enjoy your study here. All the best to you :) heh hi Sheila. Maybe you can share with others how it went and what lesson you make and what u wanna warn girls (and boys) about BGR also? Looking forward to your sharing :)

UMS is not a bad place, it’s most beautiful! Enjoy your study here. All the best to you :)

]]> By: Sheila http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/finding-a-girlfriend/#comment-149 Sheila Sat, 18 Jul 2009 06:32:41 +0000 http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/?p=62#comment-149 Intresting story... in fact ya, its not the good time to get invove in a relationship... i was so foolish in my school years..thinking that he will love me and remain faithful to me... After we leave school to catch our dreams, we promise each other that we be true to each other...not even a year after left schools, he just lost contact with me... i don't feel sad or anything...anyway, its just a puppy love only and do not have any commitment... So, here am i in UMS..catching my dream... even it's not my choice of course..haha... no choice... need to study to the best i can Intresting story…
in fact ya, its not the good time to get invove in a relationship…
i was so foolish in my school years..thinking that he will love me and remain faithful to me…
After we leave school to catch our dreams, we promise each other that we be true to each other…not even a year after left schools, he just lost contact with me…
i don’t feel sad or anything…anyway, its just a puppy love only and do not have any commitment…
So, here am i in UMS..catching my dream…
even it’s not my choice of course..haha…
no choice…
need to study to the best i can

]]> By: ligzhi http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/finding-a-girlfriend/#comment-32 ligzhi Sun, 20 Jul 2008 13:57:35 +0000 http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/?p=62#comment-32 BGR doesn't thrive on feelings alone. You are right on that. It takes much much much more than that. Commitment especially is something that "young" people don't really have or shall I say don't understand and comprehend enough. It is in my opinion that nowadays, people tend to rush into getting involved in a relationship just for the sake of it, just to fit into their surroundings. These are all not the right reasons for a relationship to be based on. So I have to agree with you on the "validity" of your points made above. However, when the time is right, when you are ready and don't hesitate.. hee... cutting short my comments, on diet right now... ligzhi BGR doesn’t thrive on feelings alone. You are right on that. It takes much much much more than that. Commitment especially is something that “young” people don’t really have or shall I say don’t understand and comprehend enough.

It is in my opinion that nowadays, people tend to rush into getting involved in a relationship just for the sake of it, just to fit into their surroundings. These are all not the right reasons for a relationship to be based on. So I have to agree with you on the “validity” of your points made above.

However, when the time is right, when you are ready and don’t hesitate.. hee…

cutting short my comments, on diet right now…

ligzhi

]]> By: David Cheah (dcz) http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/finding-a-girlfriend/#comment-30 David Cheah (dcz) Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:12:28 +0000 http://christopherooicc.wordpress.com/?p=62#comment-30 Interesting sharing. And true too... I did always wonder why it is not encourage to date during our varisity years, but never did took the initiative to do so. I pity those to fall into the lie, especially girls, so believe that their only change they are ever goin to get is during the varsity years, and those who already have are lucky. Totally not true. As long as there is a person to socialise with there is always that chance to meet that divine person. Interesting enough, i'm going through a rather similar emotional ride, but a total different situation, with maybe in future i will blog it, just to realase the toughts and heart cry. But it is true for me as well. I am not ready, i know that. But am succumb to peer presure, and the desire to fill this loneliness grows by the day, and slowly eats the life from you. The result from not eating from the Word. Heh~ God bless you! And Keep you and let His face shine upon you. Interesting sharing. And true too… I did always wonder why it is not encourage to date during our varisity years, but never did took the initiative to do so.

I pity those to fall into the lie, especially girls, so believe that their only change they are ever goin to get is during the varsity years, and those who already have are lucky. Totally not true. As long as there is a person to socialise with there is always that chance to meet that divine person.

Interesting enough, i’m going through a rather similar emotional ride, but a total different situation, with maybe in future i will blog it, just to realase the toughts and heart cry. But it is true for me as well. I am not ready, i know that. But am succumb to peer presure, and the desire to fill this loneliness grows by the day, and slowly eats the life from you. The result from not eating from the Word. Heh~

God bless you! And Keep you and let His face shine upon you.

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